- To be told that my mother and father still love me and will never divorce me.
- To be told that the divorce is not my fault and not be told about the adult problems that caused it.
- To be considered as a human being and not be considered as another piece of property to be fought for, bargained over, or threatened.
- To have decisions about me based on what is in my best interests, not on past wrongs, hurt feelings, or my parent’s needs.
- To be allowed to love both my father and my mother without being forced to choose or feel guilty.
- To know both my father and my mother through regular and frequent involvement in my life.
- To have the financial support of both my father and my mother.
- To be spared hearing bad or hurtful comments about either of my parents which have no useful purpose.
- To be a child and not to be asked to tell a lie or act as a spy or messenger.
- To be allowed to have affection for the people who may come into my life without being forced to choose or feel guilty.